Thursday, April 20, 2006

too soon?

as i walked into the theater the other day to see spike's new joint i was confused by a trailer for a new movie. because i arrived midway thru the trailer, i wasn't too sure what it was about, who was in it, etc., but as i took my seat a rush of sadness hit me - omg, this is about one of the fourth 9/11 plane. my second thought - why would anyone want to make this into a feature film? every few days the tv trailers will come on during commercial breaks and my heart sinks . . .

as a child of the 80's i remember countless made for TV movies that depicted a hi-jacking or a kidnapping, etc., but never in my life do i recall these movies being played on the silver screen for the masses. these historical events had a worthwhile story that should be told - but they were never commercialized (is that a real word?) beyond the $$$'s made from tv land network commercial sales. A&E released a made for tv movie, which i don't recall hearing about, but fine it was made, that should be enough, right?

we are all familiar with the story - the passengers of united flight 93 fight the hijackers to prevent a catastrophic event. we all remember the story, we can all recall where we were when the events of that day unfolded - the pain of our nation was felt across the globe. during that phase of my career i worked for a PR firm that specialized in crisis communications and crisis response and we also represented one of the major aviation trade organizations, which created another layer of concern, not only was i an american effected by these events, but i would have to deal with the events on a day-to-day basis for months to come because of work.

9/11 should never be forgotten, but isn't it too soon and aren't the wounds of that fateful day too deep for the events to be recounted on a feature film? maybe i'm overly sensitive, maybe i am too concerned about the families of the passengers of that plane - although the movie was made with the families full cooperation. my question is this - why should film makers and producers feel that its okay to make money off of a day that devastated our country and changed the lives of countless people? five years is a long time, but five years is not enough time for popular culture to re-present a tragic moment in our history.

perhaps the families wanted the movie to be made in honor of the heroes of that flight, but what if they were not entirely involved in the process . . .

i know that people will give the static answer of "if you don't wanna watch it, don't," and depending on how i feel from april 28th until it leaves the theaters, i may or may not watch the movie. reliving the moments of fear, anxiety, etc. of that day aren't necessarily ones that i shun when a movie is based on a generic screenplay, but the reality of the story and the current news surrounding zacarias moussaoui's trial, its just a lot to digest.

lest we forget the events and the aftermath of that horrific day, but is the silver screen the best place to "memorialize (again not sure if that's a real word, but i'm gonna use it) and honor" the hero's of United 93?

Tuesday, April 18, 2006

and then there were three

finally tomkat's kitten has arrived! mr. and soon-to-mrs. tom cruise welcomed suri cruise, a beautiful aries girl, into the world this afternoon, just hours after brooke shields welcomed her second bundle of joy, a son. i wonder how much noise katie was allowed to make?

congrats to the new parents! now when's the wedding?

A bunch of random stuff about me

Thanks to Hustleman for the Pseudo Survey . . .

Current mood: Chill

1. EVER BEEN GIVEN AN ENGAGEMENT RING? Does a promise ring count (that's a southern thing)
2. LONGEST RELATIONSHIP? On and off for 10 years
3. LAST GIFT YOU RECEIVED? $20 iTunes gift certificate
4. Ever dropped a cell phone? Yeah
5. WHEN'S THE LAST TIME YOU WORKED OUT? An hour ago
6. THING(S) YOU SPEND A LOT OF MONEY ON? My high ass rent
7. LAST FOOD YOU ATE? A turkey sandwich
8. FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX? His height, eyes and teeth
9. ONE FAVORITE SONG? That's hard - right now I'm feeling Conceited by Remy Ma
10. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? SW Waterfront
11. HIGH SCHOOL YOU ATTENDED: Bishop McNamara High School
12. CELL PHONE SERVICE PROVIDER: T-mobile
13. FAVORITE MALL STORE: GAP
14. LONGEST JOB YOU HAD: Two years, PR associate
15. DO YOU OWN A PAIR OF DICE? Nope
16. DO YOU PRANK CALL PEOPLE? I used to, now I just drunk dial
17. LAST WEDDING YOU ATTENDED: My girl Blythe's wedding in New Orleans
18. FIRST FRIEND YOU'D CALL IF YOU WON THE LOTTERY: I'd call KD and tell her that I'm Oprah and she's Gayle
19. LAST TIME YOU SAW YOUR BEST FRIEND? September, I think
20. FAVORITE FAST FOOD RESTAURANT: That's a toss up between Taco Bell and Chik-fil-A
21. BIGGEST LIE YOU HAVE HEARD? We'll be friends forever
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23. WHERE'S YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO EAT WITH FRIENDS? Dragonfly at the moment
24. CAN YOU COOK? Hell yeah, I'm Southern raised
25. WHAT CAR DO YOU DRIVE? The second to last car on the Green Line, or somebody else's
26. BEST KISSER? Marcus
27. LAST TIME YOU CRIED? The other day while talking to Loverboy one morning
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29. THING YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT YOURSELF: My ability to bounce back from bullshit
30. THING YOU DISLIKE MOST ABOUT YOURSELF: Lack of focus while in school and now I'm trying to get back in the race . . .
32. LONGEST SHIFT YOU HAVE WORKED AT A JOB: While working at a PR firm I had to do media monitoring starting at 5 AM and I'd leave at 5 PM so that's 12 hours
33. FAVORITE MOVIE? Life is Beautiful
34. CAN YOU SING? I was in concert choir in college, but I'm not all up in church blowing
35. LAST CONCERT ATTENDED? Coldplay
36. LAST KISS? Saturday
37. LAST MOVIE RENTED: Walk the Line
38. ONE THING YOU NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE WITHOUT: My purse cause it has my keys, debit card and cell phone
39. FAVORITE VACATION SPOT? New Orleans
WHAT HAPPENED TO 40-42???
43. LAPTOP OR DESKTOP COMPUTER? Laptop
44. FAVORITE COMEDIAN? Eddie Murphy cause we have the same birthday . . .
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46. SLEEP WITH OR WITHOUT CLOTHES? Depends on who's with me ;)
47. WHO SLEEPS WITH YOU EVERY NIGHT? My GAP bear Pete
48. DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS WORK? I used to be addicted to them
49. HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU BEEN PULLED OVER BY THE POLICE? Maybe 2 or 3
50. PANCAKES OR FRENCH TOAST? Pancakes!!!
51. DO YOU LIKE COFFEE? If its fresh, I've gotten to the point where I can do black coffee
52. HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS? I don't eat infant chickens
53. DO YOU BELIEVE IN ASTROLOGY? Hell yeah! God made the stars
54. LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE? EE
55. LAST PERSON ON YOUR MISSED CALL LIST? CJ
56. WHAT WAS THE LAST TEXT MESSAGE YOU RECIEVED? "how has your day been?
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58. NUMBER OF PILLOWS? Six total (I like bed decor), but I sleep on one or two, depending on if I'm alone or not
59. WHAT ARE YOU WEARING RIGHT NOW? A black tee shirt and boy shorts
60. PICK A LYRIC, ANY LYRIC OR SONG? Giving up is so hard to do/I've tried/But it just ain't no use/Giving up, so hard to do/I said I've tried/But it just ain't no use
61. WHAT KIND OF JELLY DO YOU LIKE ON YOUR PB & J SANDWICH? Strawberry
62. CAN YOU PLAY POOL? I'm alright
63. CAN YOU SWIM? Yes
64. FAVORITE ICE CREAM? Dulce de Leche
65. DO YOU LIKE MAPS? The song or reading them, I love Google Maps
66. TELL ME A RANDOM FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: The love of my life is no longer alive
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68. EVER ATTEND A THEME PARTY? Yes
69. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SEASON? The time between Summer and Fall
70. LAST TIME YOU LAUGHED AT SOMETHING STUPID? A few minutes ago, talking to EE
71. WHAT TIME DID YOU WAKE UP THIS MORNING? Late, as usual - 7 45 AM
72. BEST THING ABOUT WINTER? The possibility of a snow day
73. LAST TIME A COP GAVE YOU A TICKET? Last winter in Chinatown
75. NAME OF YOUR FIRST PET? I don't remember my first, but my last was
Charlie Parker, he went by his middle name
76. DO YOU THINK PIRATES ARE COOL OR OVERRATED? All I know is Johnny Depp is fine
77. WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS WEEKEND?? Hanging out and going to a homebuyers seminar
78. BIRTHDATE: April 3rd
79. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE: Happy
80-84???
85. ARE YOU ON A LAPTOP? Yup
Where is 86?
87. ARE YOU SMILING? Not right now
88. DO YOU HAVE ON EYELINER? Nope, I don't like stuff near my eyes, except mascara
89. DO YOU MISS SOMEONE RIGHT NOW? Yeah, unfortunately
90. IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD WHERE WOULD YOU GO? Some where beautiful - the Greece or Africa
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92. ARE YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL? No, but I miss it every once in a while
93. DO YOU HAVE A CRUSH? Nope, he knows I like him
94. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE NAME? Na Na from around the WA-AY
95. WHAT COLOR IS YOUR BATHING SUIT? I don't have one, but the one I want is black
96. DOES YOUR SCHOOL START IN AUGUST? Yeah, but I'm outta school
97. DID YOU GO ON VACATION LAST MONTH? No, but I took a sick day
98. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ON A CRUISE? No, I'm going in June
99. DO YOU HAVE A SISTER? A half sister . . .
100. ARE YOU UPSTAIRS? I'm on the 8th floor of my building . . . that's up a few flights of stairs
101. ARE YOU IN LOVE? Nah, but I wanna be
102. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN THE HOSPITAL? Only to support other people
103. DO YOU WISH YOU COULD SEE ANYONE PARTICULAR RIGHT NOW? Yeah, Joshua
104. WHAT JEWELRY ARE YOU WEARING? None
105. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO AFTER THIS SURVEY? Wash my hair

Monday, April 17, 2006

one more time

well, it looks like we all survived easter - some of us more hungover than others, but hey, we all celebrate the resurrection of the Lord in our own special way.

just to backup and recap - loverboy broke my heart on my birthday (4/3). on wednesday (4/12) he calls all sweet and apologetic - being the sucka for a pitiful plea that i am, i, of course with false hesitation, decided to let him apologize in person. by thursday morning (4/13) he'd said he'd said his "i'm sorry" so well, i was making breakfast, yes breakfast during the middle of the week!!! i don't even do that for myself.

well, needless to say my weekend was low key, but nice. friday night, my new official happy hour with YB, was well spent at dragonfly, sipping martinis and eating some of the best affordable sushi in town. of course, being the glutton for punishment that i am, i decided that seeing loverboy wasn't such a bad thing since i'd seen him on wednesday/thursday. so during booty call hours (with no booty call in sight, seeing that it was lent and i'd given up sex) i let loverboy come over to "talk" - gotta love that late night talking. we had a lovely early morning with the usual spooning, hugging, talking, etc. there is something about him in the morning. having had several co-ed sleepovers, there are few people that you can actually say you enjoy waking up to, sex aside - you simply enjoy that person's company.

well, anyway, we lounge and lay around most of the morning, have a bowl of cereal and skip the lunch we'd planned. low and behold my momma decides to call - there is no reason not to take her call, loverboy won't say anything for her to know he's there, right? wrong. by the end of the conversation momma has assigned loverboy to be my driver to her middle of no where home. luckily, they'd met so there was some level of comfort, but 27 or not, who the hell wants their momma to know they are having sleepovers with a young man who isn't her boyfriend/fiance/husband, but hey, it is what it is.

once we arrive at momma's, the nervousness is non-existent and everybody is at ease, no funny feelings about "meeting the parents" because its not that deep, we're just friends, so its no big deal . . .

the highlight of the inquisition was loverboy looking over momma's x-rays because he's a PT and she's going to start physical therapy within the next week or so. gotta love having people in particular professions at the right moment - he was able to put me at ease about her spinal issues and prove that he knows a thing or two about what he does for a living, despite his age.

he leaves after about 45 minutes and of course i get the full interrogation since momma watched our private goodbye from the kitchen window. gotta love the cliche/movie'esq things that happen in real life. well after a few simple questions (do you like him?, does he like you?, do you use protection?) we got down to real business - cooking the easter feast.

Monday, April 10, 2006

now what



so it was release today that the there was no DNA match in the highly publicized alleged rape and assault case involving the Duke lacrosse team and a 27 year-old black woman.

what now?

did the young woman lie? in some reports the young woman arrived at the party

does the coach get his job back?

what happens to the emotions, racial tension and frustration that has tainted this community?

not to make light of this situation, but i see a Lifetime movie in the works . . .

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

i'm still drunk

so i had a fabulous time last night -- aside from being dumped, again! note to self: do not take the dude back for round three of dump NT, being dumped on your birthday is now an all time low.

now on to the juicy stuff . . .

despite the shitty weather and wack ass client emergencies i had the best time EVER! my fellow bloggers, friends and random fabulous people settled in at Drinx for a lovely evening of drinking and laughing. i remember having the following drinks:

3 Dirty Martini's
3 shots of something (two pink, one clear)
1 shot of tequila
1 glass of white wine

needless to say i was feeling really nice last night, but hell this morning. anyway, i'm good now.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

Monday, April 03, 2006

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

Yeah, you know what this is
It's a celebration, bitches!
Grab a drink, grab a glass
After that I grab yo ass
Why you actin' all
Shy and all
Why is y'all
Lyin' for?
"I never did this before..."
Stop that
What, you want some petron?
I got that.


Kanye West "Celebration"


And I'm off!


I'm celebrating my 20+ year of existence and damn proud of it. I rang in my personal new year at Lima - located at the ever so fabulous 14th and K St - on an evening hosted by Gilbert Arenas and Fat Joe. I was ever so fortunate to receive birthday greetings from both hosts, not once, but twice - thanks Terror Squad and Washington's own Wizard :)!

There are so many things that you can get away with on your birthday, including walking bare foot on 14th Street, while meeting the Sigma from BET's newest season of College Hill and not realizing it until you make it home - I knew there was a reason that dude looked so familiar . . .

ANYWAY, i'm drunk and my day is just beginning - more to report later . . .